Erasing Sugarcoated Criticism
Back in middle school, when I was in 7 th grade, the Boulan Broncos basketball team only had 3 wins. The very next year, we doubled that. Now the pretty obvious reason why that actually happened was because I joined the team (I only had four points per game), but in reality, there was another thing just as equally important that contributed to our team’s wins. The new coach we had. The 7 th grade team coach was a perfect example of what Steven Pinker explained in “Words Don’t Mean What They Mean.” He constantly used vague speech like “this team has to put in more work” or telling me, “Just put in more effort for next year”. On the other hand, my eighth-grade coach, as any suitable coach should, pummeled just about every player on the team at one point. He pointed out every player’s exact flaws and would occasionally pull out the game tape to critique us right then and there. Every time we were down during halftime, the whiteboard in the locker room got absolutely fried. He de...