Erasing Accountability
Before entering winter break, we were all shocked with a cold read and seminar on the essay “I want a wife”. The message seemed to be fairly obvious. Stereotypes are unrealistic. Men desire the world from their wives and give nothing in return. But there was something our class failed to account for. Some stereotypes and role expectations have the potential to do good when they are able to provide accountability, structure, and a shared, common standard. Judy Brady’s essay demonstrates how stereotypes were used to exploit wives, but the exaggerated tone that she uses encourages readers to reject all role-based expectations instead of differentiating between actual exploitation and simple accountability. It’s incredibly important to realize that some stereotypes are not inherently bad. For example, expecting a wife to contribute to the home or expecting a husband to provide protection to a family...